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Age of Fulfillment Newsletter )
July 2005
In This Issue
  • Planning for Your Retirement
  • Today's Take Away
  • Factoid
  • Resources
  • Assessment Tools
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    Dear Sir/Madam,

    Do you have a good network of friends outside of work? Just a few who you can talk to openly without feeling threatened?

    I think women have a big advantage over men in the arena of relationships. Women, for the most part, seem to have a circle of other women they share their feelings with. Women who they know will be there in time of need.

    For men, it is a different story. We're competitive; don't open up because it'll make us appear weak. Consequently, we don't have the same close relations that women nurture.

    In my retirement planning I've realized how isolated I really am. Sure I have my wife who I do share much with. I also have a son who I can talk to but he is 600 miles away!

    Going into retirement will mean pushing aside long ingrained beliefs - not easy to do! - if I'm going to work on having a few buddies. There are things I want to do in retirement that Kimberly won't be around to do - still working. And won't do because she doesn't want to - camping for instance.

    This means cultivating a few relationships now so when I do retire I have a network in place. A buddy who I can talk freely with without feeling judged or considered weak and visa versa. Some one who wants to do some of the same things I want to do.

    Planning retirement helps you discover areas that need developing such as establishing a network of friends. Planning done ahead of time gives you more time to work on those areas and the details! If you wait too long you may have more of a challenge facing you

    Plan to succeed not fail! Start planning a strong network outside of work now!


    Bruce Macdonald

    Planning for Your Retirement

    Have you made a plan for your retirement? Is it detailed and does it really excite you? Oh, you're too busy to start planning! Besides, you still have plenty of time - no problem! Perhaps you need to re-think about putting off your plan. If you fail to plan, plan to fail.

    We should not lose sight of the fact as we approach retirement we have a wonderful chance to re- evaluate our lives, careers and future. We are freed from many obligations such as children to care for, educate and launch. We may choose to mix and match work, education and leisure in a different way.

    Planning does mean you'll need to ask some tough questions. It will mean looking at who you really are - asking what is my life's purpose! It means being honest and true to yourself making sure your answers are yours and not someone else's. This will be your plan not your significant other, not your friends and not your children's. It is time to take off the masks we've worn to maintain our jobs, our civic position and our reputations!

    This is YOUR journey to discovery! Your renewal phase! How does this sound to you?! Does it begin to paint an entirely different portray of retirement for you? Are you seeing the need to plan now?!

    Are you ready to seek the truth that you're more than your work? Do you know what your key motivators are that will need to be satisfied when you retire from your present job? What will you be giving up when you retire? Do you see yourself arising in the morning during retirement with the same anticipation you experienced when working? What IS your life's purpose? What is it you've always wanted to do yet didn't have the time to go after? Will you start a new career?

    Next month I'll continue with looking at motivators and why you need to know them.

    Today's Take Away

    What are your answers to the above questions? Have your written them down?

    What are your plans for retirement? When ARE you going to start putting a retirement plan down on paper?

    Factoid

    The transition to retirement is particularly stressful and tends to have a negative impact on marriages

    Older women outnumber older men at 20.8 million women to 14.8 million men.

    Almost half of all older women in 2002 were widows (46%)

    Resources

    Marriage and Divorce for Seniors www.seniorliving.about.com/od/marriagedivorce/index. htm

    Suddenly Senior- A place for everyone who's become senior before their time. www.suddenlysenior.com

    Assessment Tools

    Be sure to get your assessment tools on our web site to help you in your retirement planning!


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